{"id":598,"date":"2014-07-09T15:13:01","date_gmt":"2014-07-09T13:13:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/umealaia.eus\/hala-holakoa-20140709\/"},"modified":"2014-07-09T15:13:01","modified_gmt":"2014-07-09T13:13:01","slug":"hala-holakoa","status":"publish","type":"dokuteka","link":"https:\/\/umealaia.eus\/es\/dokuteka\/hala-holakoa\/","title":{"rendered":"HALA-HOLAKOA"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Badira bederatzi urte gure alaba Enara Txinatik ekarri genuenetik. Bederatzi urte Chongqing-eko notaritza batean lehenengo aldiz ikusi genuenetik eta beso artean estreinakoz hartu nuenetik. Ez zuen negarrik egin. Are: esango nuke irribarre bat marraztu zuela ezpainetan, gurea bezain zabala. Gogoan dut ez zekiela koilara bat zertarako balio zuen. Gogoan dut ez zitzaizkiola nire bizarrak gustatu. Eta gogoan dut\u2026<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ez, lasai\u2026 ez dut bide horretatik jarraituko. Adopzioaz aita baten ikuspuntu eta sentimenduetatik hitz egin dezadan eskatu didate eta aspaldi ikasi nuen arrosa koloreak ez diola batere onik egiten mundu honi. Bederatzi urte hauetan ikasi dut ezen, jende askok kontrakoa uste duen arren, adopzioa oso urrun dagoela irudizko mundu perfektuetatik, eta gauzak horrela, ez naiz ni horrelako margolanik pintatzen hasiko.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Azken batean, horixe baita adopzioa: akats bati emandako konponbide hala-holako bat.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Gustura asko esango nizueke gure alaba adoptatua bere ikasgelako beste ume guztiak bezalakoa dela. Gustura asko kontatuko nizueke zorion bitsetan bizi garela, ez dagoela arazorik, dena ondo doala, Enararen begi urratu txikiek betetzen dutela haur orori dagokion ezberdintasun kuota. Baina ez da hala.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Zorionez, baina, gure lehen mundu honetan psikologoak existitzen dira. Eta, sinets iezadazue, \u00a0inguruan ditugunak txapela kentzeko modukoak dira, onak baino hobeak. Izan ere, puntuz puntu eta urratsez urrats bete baitira adoptatu aurretiko bilera urrun haietan beraiek egin zizkiguten aurreikuspenak. Halako garaitan, halako arazoak izango ditu. Halako garaitan halako beldurrak sentituko ditu. Halako adinaz, halako galderak egingo ditu.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Eta Enarak, ttak!, ez du inoiz huts egiten hitzordura.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ikuspuntu teoriko batetik, pentsa genezake ezen adopzio bidezko gurasook zorteko gaudela. Guri, guraso biologikoei ez bezala, gure seme-alaben bide-orria eman baitigute. Haur adoptatu gehienek bide beretik egiten dute aurrera, nork bere ezberdintasunetik eta nork bere erara, baina denok antzeko-parezido.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ubeldurak seinalatu zizkiguten. Arantzak erakutsi zizkiguten. Zauriak markatu zizkiguten. Eta, hala ere&#8230; \u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Eta, hala ere, ez dugu beti asmatzen. Bide-orria ezagututa ere, zalantza handiak ditugu gure seme-alaben heziketari aurre egiteko garaian. Eta teoriara atzera ere itzulita, pentsa genezake ezen aipatutakoa jakiteak tristatu beharko nindukeela. Alabaina, zalantzak ditudala onartzeak, hartutako erabaki guztiak ez direla egokiak jakiteak, erantzun guztiak ez ditudala eskura sumatzeak ez nau goibeltzen.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Izan ere, nire ezintasun horiek guztiek bihurtzen baitute Enara bere ikasgelako beste ume guztiak bezalako ume.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Arestian esan bezala, adopzioa akats bati emandako konponbide bat da.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Gertatu behar ez zuen baina, \u00ababandonu\u00bb hitzaren uberan gertatu den akats bati emandako konponbide erdipurdikoa.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ez harritu, beraz, ni ere hala-holako aita sentitzen banaiz.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Zorionez, hala da. \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">Xabier Etxaniz Rojo<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Hazi Hezi <\/em>aldizkarian argitaratutako artikulua da hau.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":0,"template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"_joinchat":[]},"motak":[],"class_list":["post-598","dokuteka","type-dokuteka","status-publish","hentry"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.7 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>HALA-HOLAKOA - Ume Alaia<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"noindex, follow\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"es_ES\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"HALA-HOLAKOA - Ume Alaia\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Badira bederatzi urte gure alaba Enara Txinatik ekarri genuenetik. 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